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You don’t have to walk through infertility alone

I’m Allison, a nurse and writer who’s navigated infertility myself. I share stories, guidance, and grounded support for every path through infertility — the hopeful ones, the uncertain ones, and the ones still unfolding

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Hi, I’m Allison Flynn Becker

I’m a nurse and writer who’s spent nearly two decades caring for women and families in moments of vulnerability and change.

Then, in my mid-30s, I found myself on the other side of the experience.

When I went through infertility myself, everything I thought I understood about care, patience, and hope was tested. I navigated years of treatments, losses, questions, and quiet waiting, and I learned what it feels like to want answers no one can promise — and to slowly find steadier ground.

Now, I’m building on my experience to write a book that offers what I needed during that time: stories that feel like companionship, and guidance that feels steady and human.

I hope my work reminds you: you don’t have to walk this alone.

Here are some of my credentials at-a-glance:

  • Registered Nurse, trained at New York University and working in women’s & children’s health for nearly 20 years

  • Master’s in Nursing Education from Monmouth University

  • Recipient of Monmouth’s Library Research Award for excellence in research and writing

  • Certificate in Professional Writing from UC Berkeley Extension

  • Published health writer for brands including Healthgrades, EBSCO Health, FlexFits, Ro, and MotherLove Herbal Company

The book you need
on your infertility journey

After navigating my own infertility experience — the waiting, the loss, the hope, the uncertainty — I found myself wishing for something I couldn’t quite find: a place where the emotional reality of the journey was held with care, and where the clinical side was explained with compassion rather than overwhelm.

So I’m writing a book that offers what I needed then.

It weaves together…

  • Stories from people who have taken many different paths to try to grow their families

  • Perspectives from medical professionals and experts

  • Reflections from my years in women’s health and my own personal infertility experience

Rather than offering quick fixes or definitive answers, this book sits with the complexity of infertility: the grief that doesn’t always have language, the identity shifts, the strain and deepening of relationships, the quiet courage of continuing forward when things are uncertain.

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